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036 // How to Stay Present on Your Wedding Day

Your wedding day goes by in the blink of an eye—and after months (or years!) of planning, the best gift you can give yourself is the ability to be truly present. In this episode of Dream Wedding Maui, I’m sharing six powerful ways to slow down, soak in the magic, and create memories that last a lifetime.
From handing off logistics to your planning team, to building intentional pauses, to anchoring your favorite moments—you’ll walk away with simple, heartfelt strategies to actually enjoy your wedding day instead of rushing through it.
Because at the end of the day, it’s not about a perfectly executed timeline or the exact shade of blush in your florals—it’s about connection, gratitude, and love.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
🌸 Why “overplanning and then letting go” is the key to peace of mind🌸 How to build intentional pauses that make the day feel less rushed🌸 Why you should put your phone away (and who to give it to instead)🌸 A simple gratitude practice to help you lock in memories🌸 How to release perfectionism so you can focus on joy🌸 The secret to anchoring memories you’ll treasure forever
✨ Whether you’re planning a beachside elopement or a grand oceanfront celebration, these tips will help you feel calm, present, and connected on your wedding day.
💌 Let’s Connect:
Website: adreamwedding.net
Instagram & Facebook: @adreamweddingmaui
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035 // Why a Wedding Weekend Beats a Wedding Day

Your wedding day will be unforgettable—but what if you could stretch that joy across an entire weekend? In today’s episode of the Dream Wedding Maui Podcast, Ashley shares how planning multi-day celebrations can transform your destination wedding into a full guest experience.
Fresh off a three-day birthday celebration packed with unforgettable activities, Ashley shows how the same ideas can be reimagined for wedding weekends. From private luaus and canoe regattas to sandcastle competitions and sunset sails, discover creative ways to connect your guests, honor Hawaiian culture, and make memories that last a lifetime.
What you’ll hear in this episode:
Why wedding weekends create deeper connections with your guests
How extra events allow us as planners to deliver even better service
Unique activity ideas from a recent 3-day celebration, including:
Private luau with music, hula, and cocktail competitions
Canoe regatta with Hawaiian cultural experiences
Garden lunch with a live art class and music
Semi-private dinner at Nobu—perfect for a rehearsal dinner
Sandcastle building competition on the beach
BBQ lunch + sunset sail to wrap up the weekend
How multi-day celebrations help guests from all over the world feel like family by the wedding day
Options for full planning or à la carte event planning with A Dream Wedding Maui
Links & Resources:🌺 Learn more at adreamwedding.net🌺 Follow on Instagram: @adreamweddingmaui

034 // The Amazon Wedding Problem

Hey friends, it’s Ashley!
Today I’m diving into a problem that’s been growing in the wedding world lately — and especially here in Maui. And I’ll be honest…I’ve been part of it, too. It’s Amazon.
What used to be one or two simple boxes from couples — a card box, some cocktail napkins, a few favors — has now turned into my team feeling like an Amazon fulfillment center. Dozens of boxes filled with candles, signage, chargers, and fragile glass arrive at venues, leaving us knee-deep in bubble wrap instead of where I want to be: by your side on the wedding day.
In this episode, I’m sharing:✨ The hidden costs of ordering décor from Amazon (time, waste, and stress).✨ Why cheap online finds rarely hold up — fragile glass, paper-thin napkins, chargers that chip after one use.✨ The truth about live flame candles in Maui (and why LED is the way to go).✨ The new boundaries I’m setting so I can serve my couples at the highest level.
At the end of the day, I want to be fully present with my clients, not unboxing Amazon shipments. Let’s rethink how we approach these wedding details and choose options that are beautiful, practical, and kind to Maui.
🌺 Find me at adreamwedding.net or on Instagram @adreamweddingmaui.

033 // Why You Should Hire a Wedding Planner Before Choosing Your Venue

Most couples think the first step in planning a wedding is locking in the venue. But here’s the truth: booking your venue first is actually step two. In this episode of A Dream Wedding Maui Podcast, I’m sharing why hiring your wedding planner before you choose your venue can save you time, money, and stress — and make the entire experience so much more enjoyable.
Fresh from a full day of site inspections with one of my couples, I’ll walk you through:
The common pitfalls couples face when booking a venue on their own.
How my insider knowledge and venue relationships streamline the process.
Why efficiency matters: how one couple planned on multiple days of site tours, but with my connections, we knocked it all out in a single day.
The hidden benefits of site inspections — building trust, setting priorities, and laying the foundation for a great planning relationship.
If you’re dreaming of a Maui wedding or just starting your venue search, this episode will give you the clarity to start planning in the right order.
Resources & Links:
Learn more at adreamwedding.net
Follow along on Instagram: @adreamweddingmaui

032 // Unreasonable Hospitality: Going Above and Beyond for Our Couples

In today’s episode of Dream Wedding Maui, I’m sharing how the book Unreasonable Hospitality by Will Guidara has inspired me—and how it perfectly translates into the way we serve our couples.
Unreasonable hospitality isn’t just about doing a good job. It’s about surprising and delighting people in deeply personal ways—in the small details, the big gestures, and the quiet moments that aren’t written on the timeline.
I’ll share three real stories from weddings we’ve planned:
The last-minute LED sparklers that almost didn’t arrive—and how we made sure every guest had one.
A groom’s pet peeve about lighting—and the lengths we went to dim a neon sign so the dance floor felt just right.
The time I reconstructed a bride’s dress minutes before her first look—because she deserved to feel radiant and confident walking toward her groom.
I’ll also open up about what this means as our business grows: my commitment to making sure every couple feels cared for, seen, and celebrated through this level of above-and-beyond service. Because to us, wedding planning isn’t just about logistics—it’s about memory-making.
✨ Resources & Links
Learn more: adreamwedding.net
Follow on Instagram: @adreamweddingmaui
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031 // Top 10 Songs You Need to Pick for Your Wedding

Music is one of the most powerful parts of your wedding day. Long after the flowers fade and the cake is gone, the songs you choose will instantly transport you back to those unforgettable moments.
In this episode of Dream Wedding Maui, I’m walking you through the top 10 songs every couple should select for their wedding day—from the processional and bridal entrance to the dance floor opener and the very last song of the night.
You’ll learn:
Which songs set the tone for your ceremony
Fun options for cake cutting and parent dances
Why your first dance song is often the most personal choice of all
How to choose the perfect dance floor opener to get guests moving
Tips for creating a Spotify playlist, “must play” list, and “do not play” list for your DJ
Whether you’re dreaming of a Hawaiian-inspired ceremony, a classic ballroom celebration, or a fun beach bash, music will help define the experience and create lasting memories for you and your guests.
✨ Resources & Links
Book a complimentary consultation: adreamwedding.net
Follow along on Instagram: @adreamweddingmaui
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030 // Maui Micro Weddings: Sarah & Aaron’s Intimate Celebration at the Sheraton Ali‘i Suite

Micro weddings are having a moment—and I am here for it! In this episode of Dream Wedding Maui, I’m sharing all about Sarah and Aaron’s beautiful and intimate wedding at the Sheraton’s hidden gem: the Ali‘i Suite.
From a sunset ceremony on a private lawn to a relaxed dinner on the lanai with their closest people, this day was low-stress, high-style, and absolutely unforgettable.
Tune in to hear:
What really defines a “micro wedding” (hint: it’s not just about the guest count)
Why I love planning these stress-free, connection-filled celebrations
A behind-the-scenes look at Sarah and Aaron’s wedding day flow
My favorite Maui venues for micro weddings (including secret spots you might not know!)
Tips for keeping your guest list tight—and why that matters with small venues
How to make a micro wedding feel just as luxurious and meaningful as a big one
Whether you’re dreaming of an intimate gathering or just want more quality time with your guests, this episode will inspire you to think small—in the best way.
🔗 Links & Resources:
→ Learn more at adreamwedding.net→ See real weddings on Instagram: @adreamweddingmaui→ Ready to plan your Maui micro wedding? Book a free consult
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029 // The Comeback of Classic Weddings: Savannah & Danny’s Elegant White + Green Celebration at Sugar Beach

📋 Episode Description (Show Notes):
Are timeless wedding styles making a comeback? I think so—and Savannah and Danny’s stunning celebration at Sugar Beach is proof!
In this episode of Dream Wedding Maui, I’m sharing all the beautiful details from one of our most elegant events to date. From a luxurious white and green floral palette to twinkle-lit chiffon ceiling draping, custom sweetheart table setups, and a heart-shaped Aloha marquee sign—this wedding was the perfect blend of sophistication, romance, and island charm.
If you’ve been dreaming of a classic wedding design that still feels warm and personal, this one’s for you.
💡 What You’ll Hear About:
Why classic white and green weddings are trending again
How we brought Savannah & Danny’s vision to life at Sugar Beach
Floral highlights (hello, white phalaenopsis orchids!)
How to dress up the Sugar Beach space with lighting and thoughtful design
The power of one inspo photo in creating a jaw-dropping event
Why Sugar Beach is a top pick for formal or elegant Maui weddings
The magic of surprise fire knife dancers (always a hit!)
🔗 Links & Resources:
→ Browse more real weddings at adreamwedding.net→ Follow along on Instagram: @adreamweddingmaui→ Ready to chat? Book a free consult
🌺 Love This Look? Let’s Plan Yours.
Whether you’re drawn to timeless elegance or bold tropical vibes, I’d love to help you bring your unique vision to life. Subscribe for more weekly inspiration—and don’t forget to trust the classics. 😉

028 // Why Your Wedding Planner’s Preferred Vendor List is Absolute Gold

📋 Episode Description (Podbean Show Notes):
Not all vendors are created equal—and when it comes to planning a seamless Maui destination wedding, who you hire really matters.
In this episode of Dream Wedding Maui, I’m sharing why our preferred vendor list is a total game changer for our clients. From florals to photography, DJs to dinner service, I break down how I personally vet each vendor we recommend—and why that list is actually quite small (for good reason!).
I also share real stories of what can go wrong when couples go off-list—and what makes our vendor team such a dream to work with. If you're planning a wedding on Maui or anywhere, this is a must-listen before you start booking your vendors.
💡 What You’ll Learn:
What a preferred vendor list actually is (and isn’t!)
How I personally select and vet each vendor
The difference between a smooth planning process and… well, chaos
True stories that will make you want to trust the list
Why assembling the right team is about more than just individual talent
🔗 Links + Resources:
→ Learn more at adreamwedding.net→ Follow along on Instagram: @adreamweddingmaui→ Want to chat with me about your dream Maui wedding? Schedule a free consult
🌺 Let’s Stay Connected:
Subscribe for weekly tips on planning an effortless destination wedding in paradise, and leave a review if you’re loving the show! Mahalo for listening and trusting us with your big day.

027 // Do You Have to Feed Your Wedding Vendors? | Maui Wedding Planning Etiquette

If you're planning a Maui destination wedding, you’ve probably wondered: Do I have to feed my wedding vendors? In this episode, Maui wedding planner Ashley Ulery shares her honest (and spicy!) take on vendor meals—what's expected, what’s reasonable, and what not to do.
You’ll learn:
What a vendor meal is and when it’s required
The 4-hour rule every couple should know
Why vendors should not eat when guests eat
Whether it's ever okay for vendors to go through the buffet line
The small gesture that vendors never forget
Whether you’re a Maui bride, a groom, or just getting started with your wedding planning checklist, this episode will help you feel confident handling vendor meals the right way—with clarity, care, and a whole lot of aloha.
Mentioned in this episode:
Rule of thumb: Feed any vendor working 4+ hours
Vendor meals don’t need to be fancy—just thoughtful and timely
Why guest experience comes first
How planners coordinate meal timing with caterers
Why the phrase “Have you eaten?” means so much on a wedding day
Connect with Ashley:💻 Website: https://adreamwedding.net📸 Instagram: @adreamweddingmaui
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